I'm looking for the same thing. As a consequence of the HT equipment I have, I need a switcher with at least 7 (8 would be even nicer) inputs on it, and I need both component video and optical audio for at least three of them. Remote control is also very much desired as I control it with my universal remote.
The two I've come across recently were the Pelican model mentioned by Pico -- which is one input short for me -- and the Joytech AV Control Center 245C, which doesn't appear to be sold anywhere in the US. I have a Joytech 240C right now, but I've been having problems with it lately.
I can't believe the options on this front are so limited. Does anyone know where I can acquire something that will suit me?