Well, I ended up getting a NEX-VG10, and I'm returning it. It's shoots fantastic video and the shallow depth of field is awesome. It's the audio that I had a problem with - it's WAAAY too sensitive. If you grab the handle, zoom, adjust focus, or toggle the wheel while recording you'll hear it in the playback, and it's very annoying. I mean to the point where I boxed it up and it's headed back to Adorama the day after I got it, and I could've played with it for a few more days.
If you record with an external recorder or plan on adding your own audio it shoots amazing video, but my plans were to follow my kids around with it and actually USE the audio it records (I don't just shoot plants/animals with a music soundtrack added in post). My reason for having a camcorder is I want to hear my kids, not the noisy zoom mechanism. Hell I could even hear it making random noises on a tripod.
Ahh, the camcorder that could have been.