You are lost because you are putting too many stipulations and thoughts into the tv. Start with your price, then find two or three tvs which look good to you in the store, write down their model numbers. Come back here and read over the owner's threads and pick the one reviewed by owners as most acceptable.
There is no perfect tv, there will be compromises. Price for picture quality, pick the one that most closely meets your needs.
You can wait forever as there are always new tvs coming out. If you want one now, do the above, buy it, get it home and adjust it and you'll be fine.