I HATE AUTOPLAY. Really. I noticed it too this week. Was watching Quincy ME and then I walked away and when I came back the next episode was already playing. Now I have to back out when the credits roll.
There really should be options in the PS3 interface. No way to default to the main Netflix UI. Small credits and auto play I would turn off but you can't.
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