I think I need to hear a quality room before I keep working on making mine sound "better" when I don't even know what better is. I would like to demo a room that has kick butt LFE (relatively flat with low extension) and is acoustically treated properly (great surround field and front stage imaging), plus, double rows of seating would be icing on the cake!
I live in 06082, 10 min from Springfield Ma and 30 min from Hartford CT
P.S. You're also welcome, any time, to come here and demo mine for comparison against yours, offering ideas and tips for me as well