Roman is right in that there is not much out there and none with an adjustable headrest and a shorter back height. The only think I can think of is the Coaster Pavillion which has a manual ratchet headrest and a 41" back height which will not be ideal for you. I think you should look for chairs with backs between 38.5" and 40".
If you are open to expanding your search to sectionals that use two wedge consoles (with cup holders) between the chairs, you may have better luck. The width you have available will determine whether or not this is an option.
Also, if you are willling to expand your search to Black, take a look at the following models:
Barcalounger Matinee: Nice chair with a 40" back height, but no tray table, unfortunately
Albany Furniture Varsity: Nice, comfortable chair witha 41" back, tray table and storage
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