Empirical, I will not let you falsely accuse me in public. Every man has his limits. You just hit mine. I thought you had reached it one post back, but I decided I could keep being the strong one.
(And I admit I wish I were stronger, for the sake of the others here. I vow, for the others, to stop after this post. Unless you add another, different, false accusation. But repeating the same one will be fine.)
Originally Posted by Empirical
No idea why this post isn't on here, but this is the email I received: [...]
Oh, Empirical, it's simple:
Imediately after posting, I was rereading myself to catch typos like the line that meant to say "You have been SOOO stupid toward
me" (as in treating me poorly, in a very stupid manner) - while trying to correct that - and I do sincerely apologize for THAT miscommunication - I saw that Augerhandle had gracefully answered your question and at that point, and because it had kept coming to my mind, I said to myself:"bah, what's the use, he's just going to miss the point completely, get offended, and call me more names."
And I deleted it. Again, you have no idea how much effort I put into NOT unloading what I really think.
Then, I kid you not, I went to the bathroom, and there I realized:"Ha, he'll probably cut and paste the post, even though it's obviously been deleted, and he could take it as me regretting it, but he won't even think of that, so clouded by unfounded anger."
And now we are here, thanks to your reply, where you address none of the issues I raise, but instead falsely accuse me of bullying.
Originally Posted by Empirical I don't think I have encountered such a self righteous bully on any forum. You sir need psychological help.
Empirical, psychologically, you are a passive aggressive with victimization syndrome who is manipulative (see sly period where you were suddenly pretending to be nice to me to coax me to leave) and takes every disagreement as a personal attack - in line with your PMs a while back to JP32 and I, where you ask "Do you have something personal against me?" and provide no other detail. This after mere logical, and non-personal replies to some of your nonsense. You are clearly very hurt inside, and have very low self esteem, complaining often about others behavior while getting enraged - and losing cognitive skills - by any complaints about your behavior , which should be met instead with empathy, but never with you - in line with some past posts, and the last one. You are in such a high state of self-protection, that you mistake as censorship the mere request that you help the rest of us by cleaning up posts where you say your "picture is great, doesn't have the defect" now that you readily admit having the defect and wanting it to get fixed. The memory of your own offenses is crowded out by the memory of others offenses (a fairly typical human trait, but yours is unhealthy) This is where me saying "You have been SOOO stupid toward
me" (as in treating me poorly) came from.
Yes, I painstakenly wrote all that myself, and didn't just paste in some canned insult. Avid psychology reader
didn't fit under my handle. This mention of another of my areas of knowledge is not a sarcastic statement, it's an informative fact. Taking offense is your choice. But remember who started on psychology. (you actually started on it, about me, way back, but I blew it off then.)This is not bullying.
Calling names without backing up with facts is bullying. Until you point to some real facts about my posts not being warranted, pointing to a real psychological abnormality beyond "you pushed him too far" - until then, your "psychological help" comment remains a cheap, CHILDISH insult.
This is not bullying. This is sheer frustration as I tried to explain in my retracted post.
In summary, THHOWL is not a bully: Empirical suffers from victimization, is Labeling, and is the actual bully.