I am back with little more details and choices I made, so that you, experts, can now chime in and help.
Before we go into my choices, there are some changes:
for now the system will be in a 15*10*11 room, it will change in a year.
Budget increased to $2500 for 5.1, I already got the Denon 2112CI.
less boomy clear voice
bipole & dipole preferred(I am not sure how much difference it makes but when I read about them it sounded like good to have)
Here is my list of choices so far:Verus Forte Tower Surround HD
$2,737Klipsch RF-82II, RC-62II, RS-52II Surround Sound Speaker Package - Cherry
$2,595.00KEF T305 5.1 Home Theater Speaker System (Black)
NOTE: I guess these KEF's aren't PLANAR tech, as I understand Planar's are too much directional and I don't like that.Intimus 5T Hybrid HD
$2,409.00Emp E55TiR tower system ii
$2,200.00Klipsch RF52 ii ht package
NOTE: I would like to replace the surrounds in this set with the Swan T1000R, as the Swan T1000R are bipolar's.
I understand there are too many choices here, and that's where I need your help. As I said earlier, I am a NOOB and don't understand much of accoustics/speakers. If some of the choices here don't make sense or doesn't fit here, please explain so that I can understand. Most of the choices are pure by look, so another requirement, obviously from my wife, should look too good, but I will sacrifice the look for the audio experience.