Thanks for the input. I found a used set of NHT Super Ones locally, and I like the sound for the price that I might get for now (price is really good). I think I would prefer the HTD L3s or the HSUs or even the ARX as they seem to be of higher quality, and loud music will be played often (Dream Theater, Rush, Metallica, NIN, Daft Punk (daughter loves em) etc etc)
I'm going to keep saving and see if I can't swing for the better ones. I AM going to get 3 bookselfs as opposed to 2 bookshelfs and a center. Depending on what I go with, I might get the same bookshelfs for all 5 speakers, after that, Its just a matter of saving up for a subwoofer!
I'll let you guys know what I get and take pictures. I'm juggling price/sound/size right now. My budget is tight, my wife likes smaller speakers (but shes flexible), but I'm pretty picky on how the music sounds. I think the theater part is easy, its the music that I always find lacking it most HT setups.
Denon AVR-2113 Receiver
Subwoofer TBD (SVS SB1000, NHT B-10d, Rythmik LV12R, Klipsch RW12-D)