That worked, I had to turn off HDMI control on the receiver. It also fixed another problem I have been trying to work through, when I turn on the system with my harmony one, everything came on fine but about8 seconds later, the receiver would switch input from sat to tv. Turning off the HDMI control fixed that too!
The only glitch I have left is when I hit the play Xbox activity button on the harmony, the receiver goes to tv instead of Game(hdmi5). I'm pretty sure that is a harmony problem and should be easy to work out.
Thanks for the quick answer JD!