I respect everybody, from everywhere. My personal experiences in life don't influence my respect towards everyone.
I say things the way they are for me, and me only, and also said by a bunch of friends (acquaintances) who also agree with me.
Whatever happened to me is not representative of the overall ensemble.
But in no way am I shy to share my experiences.
* Regarding that aficionado site; you have to pay to become a member. It ain't free. They are a business, not an open public forum. And if you want to know some of the unethical tactics used, just PM me.
Yes, people are polite; they have a good incentive to be.
* As for the Circle of trust; nice people, just too reserved @ times, regarding taboos and the other gender, by some of them members, including the owner. No big deal, just that I'm way passed to be stuck in stuff of that sort. If truly interested to find out more (in details), just PM me and ask me.
I have no bias for or against anyone or any organisation; just some real facts that I saw very clearly, with time, and with the help of few smart friends. ...Without extreme prejudice.
The better people they go to heaven, the rest they follow but much slower.