I'd tell you just not to bother!
Without exaggeration, in the 4 days of total time played, I've yet to have even one
discussion with anyone on my side about anything worthwhile in terms of strategy. Not even a single, there's a camper in the barn, in the dark shadow part! (Why doesn't ANYONE ever warm me about that guy!) Seriously, the lack of helpful mic chat is actually very weird. (Who in the world would EVER use the eavesdropping perk!!!) Having said that, all I play are TDMs, and I've been in a party with a couple friends in here, only a few times. Basically all I hear are rap songs, someone yelling at someone (usually someone yelling at his kids) or someone yelling at the player (usually a parent yelling about a chore that has gone undone for a week.) And then there's me yelling about my convenient perception of lag.
It's not exactly a Pulitzer of crafty conversations on your headset out there.