Sorry, djlemo, I don't want to turn your thread into a topic about problems with Insteon.
I don't have any problems with Insteon. It worked reliably, and I don't have any plans to replace Insteon.
(I know I'm not a moderator but...) Okay now, will we please get back in topic? We can all discuss problems with Insteon in another thread!
There has been Insteon-bashing in CocoonTech and SmartHome's Techmall.com forum. Why do we need it here!? Be constructive! Offer to help solve problems with Insteon istead of bashing, if you can. Sorry for my harsh comment, but we (Insteon users) had enough and let's not get this thread locked up.
djlemo, as others have mentioned, I'd recommend an ISY/99 with IR capability. If you have Elk M1 Gold and an ethernet serial expander, I think you'll like it a lot. You can have Elk M1 tell ISY through the ethernet expander to turn on lights when the door/window contact for the front door senses that you came home and it turns on the light! Well anyway, ISY can be used stand alone, so with IR capability, you can program your remote to activate a scene. If you want, you can drop the IR capability from ISY 99 and get a SimpleHomeNet's EZUIRT from SmartHome, which when you press "Home Theater" in the KeyPadLinc, the TV gets turned on, including the receiver, and set-top-box. And this is via the use of IR emmiter from EZUIRT.
I hope this helps!
PS: *sigh* I'm about to cool off now.