So, for what it's worth, I didn't see the smaller print saying it wa out of stock, I found this thread and saw people saying its out of stock, went back and looked and sure enough...
So I emailed, like, 15 minutes ago,
help@ASD.com (shortened due to laziness lol) and asked if it was still out of stock and if so could he switch my order to cherry (I don't really care as it will be in a corner and soon be under a table) and he replied back just now saying he'd ship out a cherry tomorrow.
So, while I understand the responses others have had, some people are just REALLY curt. Not great for customer service but I say as long as he gets the job done (replaces it if it needs to be replaced, etc. etc.) I'm willing to overlook a personality flaw, nobody is perfect. Long as the end result is good I don't much care. And the sub sounds f'ing sweet so...for a cut rate price I'm sure not going to bitch about his personality. Especially since the bad customer service thing to do would be to tell me to f off and learn to read.

Though I do wish that was part of the title and not in smaller print, I totally missed it. Usually people put stupid BS there.