Need help to distribute audio/video in appartment...

Hi everyone,
I'm posting here to ask you about a solution that would be fullfilling my needs.
I'm in the process of redoing an appartment and i'ld like to include all the audio video distribution system.I'ld prefer something i can install myself with the help (for wiring) of my electrician.
The thing is there's a while since i didn't care much about it and i'm quite lost about what to pick.

So first of all i'm trying to express my needs:

Audio only (Through micro integrated speakers in the cornice):
Hall
Dining Room
Living Room Zone 1
Main Bedroom
Guest restroom
2 Children bedroom

Video+Audio

Living room Zone 2 (Need Good 5.1 sound but integrated)
Library (Needs HI FI 2.0 SOUND)
Parent's bathroom (tv as speakers)
Children bedroom (tv as speakers)
Kitchen (tv as speakers)


So for all these zones, i'ld like to be abble to have as sources:
SAT
Cable
2 servers (for audio and video)
IPOD docks in the 4 bedrooms(parents,childrens and guest)and in the dining/living room.

And and independant DVD player for living room ,children's and guest's room.

Also i'ld like to have a few remote touchscreen (like pronto) to access everything from everywhere.

So , i whish you can understand... not easy to explain...
Then i thought about AVAtrix as cat5 system is easy.... but not sure ....
I thought about mixing a SONOS system for audio + an Avatrix for video... But then i'ld have 2 remote in each room...
Then i thought about the new Crestron Adagio but that doesn't distribute video....

And above all...There's a budget to deal with....A confortable one but still...
So everyone....Could someone help? Show me the way?Show me products i don't thought/know about?

Thanks a lot.

Thanks Wayne,
Wouldn't an Adagio do the job?(problem being distributing video)

I know it's sophisticated but i guess Crestron adagio, sonos or Avatrix are not far from my goal ....Any help????

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Thanks JCmitch.
Welle i've had a look and made a little change ...
Thing is i thought about the avatrix but then i understood it's not abble to split audio and video
I mean by the end i'll have 10 zones.
6 AV(living room, library,kitchen,bathroom 1, child room, child room2)
4audio (dining room, hall,bathroom2,main bedroom)

For now i thought i could listen source 2audio in dining room ,source 3audio in hall and look at source 2 in living room, source 3in child room and source 5 in kitchen. For example....
But if i guess well, the avatrix audio extender doesn't allow more zone.... one the zone extender do it but then it's useless as i'ld have to add CAT5receivers in the control room right to the avatrix just to plug the audio output into the power amp.... (am i clear? :? )

The thing is i need to install it myself but with a final result that'ld be nice.... I can't take an installer as here (in europe) your products are allready very expensive and having them installed is really really out of the budget i've been given...

Well....is there a product i'm ignoring about? A way of thinking it i'm not seeing?...

What about russound systems? they look quite afordable and apparently a CAV6.6+CAM6( +SMS3) would do the thing....no?

Any suggestion from users/installers?

Thanks.