Originally Posted by hifisponge
Hey CD -
I'd prefer not to get into the details of my personal life on a public forum, as I'm sure you understand.
I understand. Doing so could actually hurt you in any future or current legal proceedings.
The question is there for you to answer on your own, with the help of your counselor.
Personally I have heard women leave because:
a) Prince Charming has materialized
b) husband does not make enough money
c) husband spends too much money
d) husband does not behave nicely
e) husband has done something very wrong
f) husband and wife are not able to communicate effectively, agree with each other, and enjoy each other
In cases a) and b), the separation is actually an opportunity to upgrade.
Cases c), d) and e): serious self improvement work needed on the man's side
Case f) is the most difficult: no one is right, no one is wrong. Misunderstandings and missed expectations build up frustrations. Sometimes people manage to repair the situation, with the help of counselor.