No I dont HATE upgrading, I love it in fact, too much. Just I can't justify my hobby with other things that I need to do first is all

Get at least 6 gigs of ram, decent power supply and video card and you should be set for a bit. Throw in a 1gig or more Hard drive and you are good to go. If you really want to have fun, get two lower end cards and run those. I swore I would never do that again when I paid $500 for 2 voodoo 2meg cards. My how things have changed. You can easily play that for one top of the line card these days. (yes I said voodoo FX)
If you can build (and have the time) look into barebones systems. Until my last system I have always built my own, which I prefer. But two year olds who want to help just slows the process down for me
