Hahahaha, do you know what you are asking?
You are asking someone who owns a BOSE system to run a frequency sweep. You'll probably have to explain what "frequency" and "sweep" means... jk.
In all seriousness, math-geek sounds like someone who should not be off his meds.
As for WAF/GAF, I suggest you guys grow a pair. If you are married to someone who doesn't appreciate your hobbies, there are deeper relationship issues.
Relationship is about compromise, I understand, but I would much rather compromise on something else than HT and speakers.
Definition of compromise is your significant other needs to give up something if you give up something. Well, she had well better give up on crappy a** speakers if she expects me to give up on anything for her.
If your wife/gf is going to run off to another guy because you don't give her everything she wants... sounds more like a gold digger than a wife/gf. Maybe that's what GAF stands for? Gold digger acceptance factor?