Mitsu 3D setup, Need Help Please!!!!

I have a 2010 Mitsu 73-C9 and don't really know what I need for setting up 3D

1) Since I have a 2010 model do I still need the 3DC-1000 adapter kit? I thought that only applied to the 2009 and older models but not sure?

2) What glasses can I use? The Xpand 102 have "DLP Link" and are commonly recommended, but they are so ugly! Can I use the Xpand 103's or something else? Do I have to use "DLP Link" or can I just use an IR emitter?

3) Do I have to run all HDMI 1.4? I currently believe I am but was wondering if it is required?

Thanks guys! I tried to call manufacters but all they tell me is "yeah you need to buy (insert most expensive product here) to get your 3D working" and I feel like I'm getting had.

Please help!

not trying to be an ass here, or sound stupid but it the data sticker on the back of the tv says "manufactured Feb. 2010" is it still an '09 model?

thanks for the help dude, and thanks for being easy on the newbie