I looked up your reciever and believe you are right and cannot do DSX with that reciever unless there was a firmware update or something. I would stick with the standard 7.1 for now. If you haven't drywalled yet can always run wire there for future proofing(fronts, wides...). Subwoofers extremely room dependent and subwoofer dependent, so no set in stone best place. Best to have measurement equipment, but crawl test and trying different places with low frequency sweeps with ear gets results. Audyssey multieq will flatten sub response once find good location. Looked at reviews for this on Amazon and you should make sure you don't have faulty early firmware as it had 9 db cut in subwoofer level, yikes! I highly recommend looking into acoustic treatment as it really puts the icing on the cake.