Well hell. The cat's totally out of the bag here, and since I didn't make the mess, I'm not gonna try to clean things up any more.
Don't get me wrong, in no way do I condone any of Deon's actions, period. He's dead. Nothing we post will change that.
Yeah, as it turned out, he had a dark side. I learned of it on May 15, the day I last talked to him, the day before he took his own life.
Since then I have learned more about that than I ever wanted to. I have pieced together a lot of the bits and pieces since, through talking with his family and friends.
The details all died with Deon.
I'm as shocked as the rest of you, if not even moreso, as I considered him a friend.
Edited by lilmike - 6/9/13 at 11:02pm