If my information is right, no new media players will be able to ofer full bd menu, only bd lite. My memory is bad, but it could have something to do, that only full menu can be available with a bd license. So a Oppo player, who plays the physical disc, can offer the full menu from your hard drive. As the 103 and 105 have cinavia implanted, maybe your best option is to buy a second hand Oppo93, like I did.
I still have the Mede8er x3! Image quality is a bit above on the Oppo (more depth and cinema like), bu the X3, plays really everything I throw at it, while the Oppo, has some issues with some Mkv, and the subtiles on these are really not nice.