That says a lot
But seriously, being married is about making joint decisions of the layout of your house and about significant buying decisions (and, and and..).
A nice HT (or 2.1) will be a significant purchase and will significantly impact how a room looks.
"Parenting" or "mothering" is somewhat condescending, WAF is part of enjoying someone's company and life
Now the best path is getting WAF for a room (i.e. man-cave) where all subsequent decisions may be made with reckless abandon (given adequate budget, of course) - now we're talking
Edited by rick240 - 12/1/12 at 6:44pm