I pretty much play everything except sports games now days. Not so much into 3D but guess I really can't say that considering I don't or haven't really had experience with it besides theaters, probably would like the option.
Any projector suggestions then? Looking below 2k but would possibly go higher if the features or it's just that much better, Seating is about 10ft from screen
If you are after 1080P I would check out the W1070 thread. It has the best game lag times for a 1080P 3D projector average at 20ms, the Optoma HD33, Acer H9500BD and W7000 are a little higher in the game lag but doable in the 30ms range.
If you are prone to RBE and do not care for 3D the Epson 8350 has a low input lag think around 20ms or less if memory serves.