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keyxote 
Here's my question: How important is it to buy the recommended "timbre matched" speakers for rear surrounds?
While it's not as important as matching the front speakers with one another and the surround speakers with one another, in my opinion a fully-matched system offers worthwhile benefits, depending on what you're listening to--in general, timbre-match all of your speakers if you can, or compromise with the surrounds if you must.
By the way, the "rear surrounds" I presume you're speaking of are actually "side surrounds" or simply "surrounds" in a 5.1 system. Technically the "rear" or "back" surrounds are the additional pair used in most 7.1 systems.
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keyxote 
Is this just marketing hype to get me to purchase from the same manufacturer?
Some manufacturers may do this, but most of us here do not (as far as I know) represent them, so my answer to you is no--it may not be absolutely crucial, but it's preferential.
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keyxote 
Will it make a difference if I buy completely different rear surround speakers?
Yes, they will sound different from your front speakers, which may sometimes be less than ideal. For example, multichannel music sounds best when your entire system is timbre-matched, especially when there is imaging between the front and surround speakers or at least some of the same instruments are used in both areas. In the case of movie soundtracks that place only effects and ambiance in the surround channels, you may not be able to tell the difference, but some movies in recent years have their musical scores mixed into the surrounds, effectively making them pieces of multichannel music, and some occasionally image effects between the front and surround speakers (usually to one side or the other). If you're not critical about these things, then you don't need surrounds that are timbre-matched to your fronts, but personally I think that it makes a significant difference for the better, and not just for specific cases--the whole surround sound stage just seems more cohesive and the speakers don't call attention to themselves like they do when they're mismatched, at least in my experience (I'm probably more timbre-sensitive than some).
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keyxote 
I'm considering small satellites (Polk Audio TL3) or Dayton Audio in wall speakers. If the woofers in front are 5 1/4 should I stick with this size woofer for the surround rears?
The size of the woofers, per se, doesn't matter, although obviously the best match would be identical (in every way) speakers all around; otherwise, they only need to be matched in timbre. Whether you try to timbre-match them or not, however, I would recommend using surround speakers that could legitimately be crossed over to the subwoofer at 80 Hz (or lower). While the surround channels are generally less demanding than the fronts, there are times when they contain bass-heavy effects and/or music, and ideally we would get the full impact while avoiding the localization to the subwoofer that can happen increasingly with higher crossover frequencies. As with timbre-matching the fronts and surrounds, try to use sufficiently large and capable surround speakers if you can, or compromise if you must.
The TL3 you mentioned is a bit puny by this standard because it can't reach down to 80 Hz with any authority. If you're willing to go with in-walls, then I think that an excellent option would be the
Polk Audio 65-LS because it is both timbre-matched to your front speakers and quite capable. If full timbre-matching is not important to you and you wish to save some money (nothing wrong with this--it's your call and your money), then go with any decent-sounding and decently-sized in-wall speaker you like for the surrounds (others may have specific recommendations).
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keyxote 
Any suggestions? I need a aesthetically discreet option (wife approval factor)....
I'm not nearly as familiar with in-walls as I am with regular speakers, but in case you'd prefer the latter, there are a few recommendations I can make. In Polk Audio's lineup, there are no timbre-matched speakers that are discreet (aside from in-walls), unless you wouldn't mind putting up a couple of additional LSi7s.

The Monitor 30 is probably too bulky as well, but maybe the
T15 would work (it's the lowest quality option, though). Then there is the
OWM5, which may just barely be able to cross over at 80 Hz (sort of); well, at least it's somewhat discreet with its shallow depth. Normally my favorite recommendation for "small" surrounds (or satellites, for that matter) is the
Ascend HTM-200 SE, but I'm thinking that the best sonic match for the LSi series among compact bookshelf speakers may be the
PSB Image B4 (the HTM-200 SE will hold up better at loud volumes in large spaces, though).