Thanks guys for all the great Inputs!!.
As far as speakers go, I'm still trying to research the best I can get for my money. So far Energy(The set up I mentioned) and Monitor Audio(Not sure what to match) strike me as the best sounding from the reviews I have read and demo's I have listened. Also I'm not sure about the Denon 3808 anymore, I have been reading the specs on the Onkyo 875 and its got more certification like THX2 Ultra, not sure if this will make a dramatic sound difference. I really want to utilize all the great add on's like DTSHD and Dolby TrueHD etc, ( DTS is wayyyyy better than Dolby by the way, Not sure why dolby is still in business really!!) Also let me know if anyone has any Amp recommendations to go along with a high end receiver since the speakers I want to get I'm guessing would require at least 200w per channel RMS. I know this is not the place to talk about blue ray but I have been reading their threads for hours without a solid opinion to which player has the best picture and audio quality, any input on this is greatly appreciated, thanks!!