The LPF needs to be set at 120. This passes all available LFE information to your sub. Setting it lower will further reduce the potential output of your sub.
Try setting your mains to 60 or even 80hz, as this would increase the frequencies sent to your sub. 40hz setting for your mains further limits SB12's involvement with the sound. I would also set your surround xover to the same value as your mains.
Set your SB12's gain to 12'clock and listen to a track you're very familiar with that has good musical bass (Morph the Cat by Fagen or Vogue by Madonna are a couple that I've used to evaluate bass).
Try setting your mains to 60 or even 80hz, as this would increase the frequencies sent to your sub. 40hz setting for your mains further limits SB12's involvement with the sound. I would also set your surround xover to the same value as your mains.
Set your SB12's gain to 12'clock and listen to a track you're very familiar with that has good musical bass (Morph the Cat by Fagen or Vogue by Madonna are a couple that I've used to evaluate bass).



















The 40-80 Hz octave contains very interesting bass textures, and above that, punch and attack. The case against using a higher crossover (e.g. 120 Hz) is simply that bass becomes more localizable above about 80 Hz. But I'm quite happy with my 100 Hz crossover (with towers "rated" down to 36 Hz), although the symmetric positioning of my dual subs will alleviate localization issues. I think Audyssey, YPAO, MCACC, etc. set crossovers very low because most of the time, the mains are better at handling about anything except the very low frequencies than the typical sub.
But there *ought* to be a way to force crossover frequency at 80 Hz for the mains and surrounds. Heck, even my Pioneer AVR can do that, and it has a single crossover across all channels and doesn't even EQ the sub output. Maybe someone else can chime in.




