While not entirely discounting the whole 'make noise while the baby is young' theory entirely, I think you might be over estimating the whole whole cause & effect of that. I noticed that despite similar noise exposure in infancy, each of our kids seemed to have different noise tolerance as they grew older, and that if anything it seemed to vary according to their age more than anything - even those who woke early or easily as toddlers seemed to sleep through anything and everything as teens or young adults. Go figure. 
In any case, soundproofing a HT while doing the construction at least gives you the option of containing or minimizing the noise down the road if you want to ... and my money would be on the likelihood that there will be plenty of times when you - or your wife - will want to do that. Conversely, if you don't do it now and decide later that you want it, it will cost a lot more to retrofit it.
FWIW, I read somewhere here that one of the HT gurus - perhaps it was Dennis Erskine? - listed the top reasons why people stop using their HT regularly, and one of the top 3 reasons was the lack of sound containment.
As for your other question, sound proofing/containment is NOT a substitute for acoustic treatments within a room. Two different issues.

In any case, soundproofing a HT while doing the construction at least gives you the option of containing or minimizing the noise down the road if you want to ... and my money would be on the likelihood that there will be plenty of times when you - or your wife - will want to do that. Conversely, if you don't do it now and decide later that you want it, it will cost a lot more to retrofit it.
FWIW, I read somewhere here that one of the HT gurus - perhaps it was Dennis Erskine? - listed the top reasons why people stop using their HT regularly, and one of the top 3 reasons was the lack of sound containment.
As for your other question, sound proofing/containment is NOT a substitute for acoustic treatments within a room. Two different issues.










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