You are going to get a lot of different opinions. The list covers many of the offerings, some are shareware, some commercial software, some are just media players, some are full boat automation and media software, some concentrate on just backend processing, others on just front end, some do all of the above.
So, it's a matter of what's important to you on what is the top 3.
For example, I would not agree that CQC is the best choice for movies. DVDLobby375 is (to be available this week). But I would agree that CQC is within the top three, but not if you are looking for a 10 minute installation type of install. Both DVDLobby375 and CQC are way more than just movie players and will take more to install than most of the other simpler solutions (that also have much less capability too).
So, no simple answer is correct.