I have 4 subs in the HT room, and now since everyone is working from home, it's too much low end. A few things I tried which seemed to help:
1). Moved the subs out of the corners (also changed from down firing to front firing).
2). Changed the settings in my SR Marantz to light compression and manage bass option. There is also a night setting.
3). Pulled out my old ButtKicker kit, and put that in the mix. I can still have bass w/o a bunch of complaints.
4). Recalibrated audio using Radio Shack analog meter @ 75db (Old School).
Now I don't get the chest pounding bass I use to, but it's a good sacrifice in order to maintain peace. One day when everyone is out of the house, I step it up for a few hours, but until then.
Peace and blessings,
Marantz SR7011: 7.4.4 Martin Logan Edges (4: FR/FL/SR/SL) Martin Logan Axis (2: SBL/SBR) Martin Logan Stage X (Center) Martin Logan 1500X Sub (2) Martin Logan 1100X Sub (2) Sonance VP86R SST/SUR (4: Dolby Atmos) JVC NX-7/DaLite 125" 2:35:1 Scope Screen; Paladin DCR