I don't think you'll get the same DDC (very important) settings into the OSD and with laptop display you don't have any OSD. At least, with my Dell monitors I got more (very important) settings with DDC than with OSD. Anyway, if you think so, then you can use DisplayCal as calibration software which is free
Colorimeter, you have just one choice: xrite i1 Display Pro OEM or the new and expensive i1 Display PRO Plus.
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