4K HDR too bright on my LG OLED
I seem to be in a very small minority based on reading this and other places, but I find that while many 4k UHD discs/streaming to look great in terms of colors and resolution, the overall image (not just the HDR highlights - the "bling") is too bright. I'm used to watching in a dark room, so 100nits is good for me. This is why I still primarily watch Blu-rays. But there are many 4K discs that I want to watch, just too damn bright. If I mess with my OLED brightness (default of 50 for DV and 100 for HDR10), then that's supposed to mess up the image/blacks/etc. So the consensus is not to touch those settings on the TV for DV or HDR10 titles. But then what can I do? I tried outputting 4K SDR BT.2020 or 4K SDR BT.709, and while that works, the colors are all wrong.
Anyone with any ideas or with the same problem?
TV: LG OLED 65C8
Sources: Panasonic DP-UB820, Apple TV 4K, Verizon Fios STB, & Xbox One X