Lobing error is just a technical term for comb filtering or interference between the speakers. The spacing between left and right speakers is large compared to the wavelength of sound at higher frequencies. The result is that when they both play an identical signal (as happens with much of the content in phantom center mode), the resulting sound waves create an interference pattern that covers the room, including the sweetspot. For some frequencies, the distances between peaks and valleys in this interference pattern will be just fractions of an inch... much less than the distance between your right and left ears. Even slight movements of the head (or, slight non-symmetries in the room layout) can cause significantly different frequency responses to be heard by the right and left ears. Our brains are pretty good at combining the two, but the result is often a change in tonality.
A good way to test this is to play a high quality recording of a single voice or instrument that was tracked in mono. Play it sending the mono signal to both left and right speakers, and then play it sending the signal to just a single speaker. In my experience, the stereo version may place the instrument/voice correctly, but the tonality is always different (in a bad way) from that heard from a single speaker playing the mono signal.
Sounds in real life aren't stereo... they are mono. Or, when there are many sources of sound, they are discrete multichannel. We hear a bird coming from a point source. Using the stereo effect to approximate a point source does an amazingly good job, but to my ears (and many others) there is still a difference.