Patience is a virtue guys.
I find it funny that since we were spoiled with 3 fw updates early on we expect another RIGHT NOW! Can you name me another product that has done 3 updates already in this "war" on either side?
Most people don't even know what firmware updates are, let alone how to get them. Just have a little patience and faith. Tosh has given us no reason to believe they will ignore us first adopters. Give them a little benefit of the doubt will ya?
I'm sure that since the players haven't even been out a year yet, they are still working on some of the fixes. They have shown the ability to listen and resond to us. Maybe Tosh was a little busy:
1) getting 2nd gen players out for the masses to help win the war
2) getting all its partners, goals, and strategies in line for CES
3) getting new contacts and deals done at CES to help preserve out initial investment
Just another opinion I guess. Go ahead and defect to BD if: you are in a hurry to buy a player that doesn't do anything better, but costs twice as much; buy movies that have less features/quality yet cost more as well; and support a whole format that doesn't think anything should be made mandatory on players so you never know what feature added on a disc will work and which won't- That could be sort of fun actually, like gambling in Vegas...except the house always wins last time I checked.
So maybe you should just relax, step back, enjoy what you have, and give Toshiba and HD DVD a little time.