Check out some of the Onkyo systems - I've never been disappointed with their components/systems. There's also a great thread on this site with some mix 'n match system suggestions - really good reading, and you could have a great system for little $$.
As for the silver color on some components, it's not trivial to me, either. All of my equipment is black and when DirecTV only had silver STBs, I actually made a smoked plastic cover plate for the front of it. Everything matches again.
As for the silver color on some components, it's not trivial to me, either. All of my equipment is black and when DirecTV only had silver STBs, I actually made a smoked plastic cover plate for the front of it. Everything matches again.