I would run initially run everything as small, and set the crossover at 60Hz (which is one octave above the -3 db point of your mains. The reason to not send bass to woofers that aren't designed to adequately handle them, is to avoid putting a strain on the higher frequencies by asking your speakers to produce the entire frequency range.
This is just a general starting point. Of course you could season to taste. I know some people that run just their mains as large, and send the LFE to both mains and sub. They feel it gives a fuller sound. Personally, it sounds bloated to me, but that is my taste.
I also feel that I get more detail in the highs when I run my mains as small, though they are rated down to 40 HZ. But I'm certain my 12" sub handles 40-80Hz much better than the single 6.5" woofers in my mains.
This is just a general starting point. Of course you could season to taste. I know some people that run just their mains as large, and send the LFE to both mains and sub. They feel it gives a fuller sound. Personally, it sounds bloated to me, but that is my taste.
I also feel that I get more detail in the highs when I run my mains as small, though they are rated down to 40 HZ. But I'm certain my 12" sub handles 40-80Hz much better than the single 6.5" woofers in my mains.