In addition to the other models listed, which are good choices, the panny 'professional' plasmas have non-glossy bezels that are also extrememly narrow. The two models would be th-42ph11uk (720p) and th-42pf11uk (1080p).
Of course, you must be aware of the professional line limitations. While they have excellent PQ and great adjustability, they do not come with a tuner, speakers, or a stand and inputs are somewhat limited, although they can be upgraded at any time with removable boards like a computer.
The 720p model is definitely the one to go for if you did it, but it is still a bit more expensive than the consumer line. You cannot buy these sets from traditional stores like BB, you must either buy them online (lots of forum sponsors sell them), or at a few specialty av shops out there.
Also, I agree, glossy bezels are a small annoyance but they are here to stay. They bothered me at first as they were everywhere I am certainly used to them now. Interestingly panasonic recently previewed some TVs with non-glossy bezels for their high-end consumer lines, but they may have just not finished the design process on the bezels yet.