no headphone will give you that "OMG" kick that a good speaker system will give you, but the one thing that headphones can give you is very good detail and that's what is needed when you are trying to understand the speech of the actors.
I'd consider headphones to be a very important part of an apartment system. For $300, you can score some very nice sounding headphones like the Denon AH-D2000 which is my top recommendation for general use headphones. Unlike some other "audiophile" headphones, this headphone has decent bass kick without going overboard, and will sound balanced for music also.
I don't recommend the "surround headphones". I'd rather have good single driver "stereo" headphones than trying to jam a bunch of poorer quality drivers into one earpiece to simulate surround sound. Most of them don't sound very good. There are some very promising developments in the world of headphone processing circuitry to mimic surround sound properly (like the amazing Smyth Virtual Surround system) but right now, the technology is expensive and new, but even someday we may actually prefer listening to headphones for surround sound material.