A few clarifications:
1) You have tried 2 new lamps each with its own housing, and both are dim? It's unlikely that the cause is the housing or the lamp, even if both were second-hand.
2) This was after the previous bulb exploded?
3) Did you throw away the housing in which the bulb exploded? Having shards of glass inside isn't a problem unless the housing is broken too. If it isn't broken, it can be cleaned up and you can replace the bulb. I've done it myself after a bulb exploded, and it's not very difficult, although it requires some skill. I've never bought expensive, seller recommended, bulbs. In fact, mine came directly from cheap chinese sellers, and they work like a charm. Although I admit their lumen output isn't as high as the original E-TORL models from Epson. Anyway, the point is that there are other lamps compatible with your projector. If you want there are plenty of sellers on eBay from whom you can buy new such lamps including housing for a lot less than the official sellers, and those should work too.
4) If the problem is the lamp ballast (that big metal block with round holes behind the lamp), it costs around $160. Usually, it is easier to get a used projector with a good ballast to take that and/or other parts from. The way that projector is built it is relatively easy to replace parts, because whole parts can be removed as if they were modules.
5) If the projector still has a good image (without colour spots or lines and such), then I don't think you should buy a new one.
If I'm not mistaken, the european equivalent of your projector is the EH-TW3600. Here's an explosion diagram of it:
https://www.gedat-spareparts.com/ex/eh_tw3200_3600.pdf
I have a TW3600 with a faulty ballast, and next week I hope to receive another TW3600 from which I will take the ballast. I can make a video of the process for you. I'm not saying that a ballast from a TW3600 is compatible with yours (I don't know that), but the video should give you a very good idea of how to replace it.