Well that explains it, when i was reading their marketing jargon i took it to mean the unit turned on via signal at the optical port, like a trigger.
I don't blame you for being confused lol, sorry, at this point i'm not sure i'm trying to accomplish much more or make any drastic changes (although i like change). I fully understand HDMI CEC, I'm just rethinking what it is I WANT to accomplish. At this time I'm not convinced that i want my 'stereo components' and speakers to be on full time for every news program, tv show, etc., this is where the sound bar has been best, for basic everyday TV. What i DID do recently that I should've before, was plug the optical cable i had out from my TV to the Emotiva preamp (the HDMI arc is being used for the sound bar), this allows me to use the stereo equip/speakers/sub when i want to for movies, youtube concerts etc., i just need to mute the sound bar as the signal is being sent to both components.
Ultimately I would like to have the stereo be ready to play and turn on like a sonos speaker would, yes i know the sonos amp is one solution, but that would replace both SB and stereo equip, which i'm leaning towards not doing. Now i know you are not a fan of the Sonos Port, however it might be the solution i'm looking for since it has the 12v trigger out, which the older Connect does not. I may just scoop a used one off the 'bay. The only thing i would have to play around with would be the volume control, i've always used the Connect in fixed not variable volume.