Thanx for the pics; very helpful.
Imagine a swing at a playground is room mode. You don't want that swing to resonate (move back and forth). There are two ways to accomplish that. Prevent any of the kids from touching the swing, so it never moves to begin with (movement never occurs). Or you can have 2 kids push equally hard from opposite sides of the swing. Any movement the swing would have made is cancelled because of equal but opposite pressure. Same end result with either approach.
Placing the source(s) of bass in a null of a mode prevents that mode from being energized to begin with. The peaks & nulls associated with that mode never occur. Or you can place 2 subs equally on both sides of a null, cancelling that mode (and any peaks & nulls associated with that mode).
Since you have 5 seats going across the width of your room, it would make more sense to place the subs to cancel width modes by employing both approaches described above. Common advice for dual sub placement is to centre them at the ¼ and ¾ points of room width. This puts them in the nulls of the 2nd width mode, so that mode is cancelled. It also puts them equally on both sides of the 1st and 3rd width modes, so those modes are cancelled. That means the peaks & nulls at 21Hz, 42Hz and 62Hz are gone, for ALL listeners across the width of the room.
In the graph you posted, notice that nulls always fall at even divisions (half, quarters, sixths) of room length. Easy to avoid them by placing the listeners' ears at one of the odd divisions (thirds, fifths) of room length; as you already have. Since all the listeners are the same distance from the front and back walls, they will experience the same length mode peaks. While you can't boost your way out of a null, you can pull down peaks with EQ. Best part: fix the peaks in one seat fixes them for all seats.