Jamie,
You really must get the SA2000HD model. Press them on it!
Looking at the owners manual (net download) of your TV, it has only two DB-15 RGB connections. I doubt TWC has a transcoder available anywhere yet for the SA3100HD but you might ask. Your only other alternative for the cable solution is to get a transcoder.
One web retailer that sells transcoders is
www.copperbox.com. Reviewing their site it appears the Key Digital Systems KD-CTCA2 transcoder does what you need done. Its price is $299! Other brands of transcoders exist .... Audio Authority and RCA are two that I know of.... but a quick search did not reveal either with a model that does the exact conversion that you need.
Regarding your question about a breakout cable..... that won't work. That would change the form factor of the connector but not the signal characteristics. What you are trying to do is convert 3-wire component signals (with sync included with two of the color signals) to separate color and sync signals (hence 5-wire RGBHV).
You will need a breakout cable with the SA2000HD along with 5 BNC-RCA adaptors so you can go from 5 RCA connects on the cable box to DB-15 RGBHV. Sources might include RS, other computer dealers, or in the computer dept of a local Best Buy or equivilant.
I am afraid the only other solution I know of would a DBS system. If you consider that route, the RCA DTC-100 model would be a great match (of course) for its output is RBGHV and uses a DB-15 RBH connector. From what I have read it is still a very good STB to use. But the costs again enter into that decision.
Good luck.
Bruce