Take a look at this:
http://www.the12volt.com/doorlocks/page3.asp
Look at the Actuators / Reverse Polarity its the 4th diagram down
It will allow you to send a Negative trigger to 1 relay and have it open then send another negative trigger to the other relay to close
Its a diagram for Car alarm door locks but really the same thing....Actuator open, actuator close...lock/unlock
Hope it helps

http://www.the12volt.com/doorlocks/page3.asp
Look at the Actuators / Reverse Polarity its the 4th diagram down
It will allow you to send a Negative trigger to 1 relay and have it open then send another negative trigger to the other relay to close
Its a diagram for Car alarm door locks but really the same thing....Actuator open, actuator close...lock/unlock
Hope it helps
