You should be able to safely bend the cables until if feels like they're starting to crimp or buckle.
The BNC right angle connector should be fine. BNC is good to several hundred MHz so even if there's a little loss in the connector it shouldn't affect the video.
You can also use a standard BNC cable connection with a 90 degree male-to-female adapter such as http://www.shopjubilee.net/itm00499.htm .
A BNC "T" connector is not the best solution although it should work. But don't terminate it since that, along with the projector termination, will give a 25 ohm load to the cable driver. The unterminated end is too short to give you a problem at video frequencies.
The BNC right angle connector should be fine. BNC is good to several hundred MHz so even if there's a little loss in the connector it shouldn't affect the video.
You can also use a standard BNC cable connection with a 90 degree male-to-female adapter such as http://www.shopjubilee.net/itm00499.htm .
A BNC "T" connector is not the best solution although it should work. But don't terminate it since that, along with the projector termination, will give a 25 ohm load to the cable driver. The unterminated end is too short to give you a problem at video frequencies.