I ran into a similar issue with a FireTV 4k Max stick, and I updated the firmware on the unit, the FireTV stick, same problem -- then I tried changing the volume with the TV remote instead of the soundbar remote and as far as I can tell, that kicked it on. I suspect just common or garden HDMI handshake f***ery, but who knows? After that all remotes worked. Make sure you have CEC turned on via the TV tho. And I assumed you've installed Smart Things -- opens up a TON of control features for the Q900A that might kick it into gear.