If I am not mistaken, the main reason to fill the stage with sand is to stop the resonating characteristics of a hollow box, under the speakers / sub. The proscenium walls are generally just framed "naked" and covered with GOM or other fabric, so they wouldnt resonate. But I do see where you are coming fromas far as touching the ceiling. I think the spacing of the stage away from the walls and filling the stage are meant to "decouple and en" the most you can. In my personal situation I will not have sand in my stage. I will not have any speakers sitting on the stage and the proscenium walls will not be on the stage itself, rather they will be on the floor.
Scott
Scott