Slightly annoying Ultramon Peccadilloes

First, every time I reboot my machine, Ultramon pops up the little taskbar notification "Right click to blah blah blah" and it doesn't go away by itself...I actually have to click to close it each time.


Secondly, I want a double click on the icon to ALWAYS mean "enable/disable secondary display" to fire up my projector, but if I restart, it changes it back to "Options...".


Any way to kill the former and lock the latter? Much appreciated!