As a Control4 dealer with a nice pile of installs under by belt... I'd NEVER do something like this. There are too many variables in the mix to "pre-program" the system and ship it out.
When you say that the local dealers were wanting to charge an arm and a leg, what does this really mean dollar-wise?
When you say that the local dealers were wanting to charge an arm and a leg, what does this really mean dollar-wise?