I think you have something wired wrong.
Generally you don't use the TV except for the video inputs - do you have the audio looped thru the TV?
Ie you want no sound coming from the TV, controlling everything from the audio units remote.
Also leave the cable box at a fixed audio output, not variable - use the audio units remote to control that sound too. ( usually about 70 percent)
You can wire up the variable audio and stuff - but its generally just annoying.
Cable box - fixed audio level, only change channels
TV - no sound, only change input if need to switch source
Audio unit/receiver - all sound and control
Does that help?
I might be off my rocker, but try to simplify using the above and play from there.
Generally you don't use the TV except for the video inputs - do you have the audio looped thru the TV?
Ie you want no sound coming from the TV, controlling everything from the audio units remote.
Also leave the cable box at a fixed audio output, not variable - use the audio units remote to control that sound too. ( usually about 70 percent)
You can wire up the variable audio and stuff - but its generally just annoying.
Cable box - fixed audio level, only change channels
TV - no sound, only change input if need to switch source
Audio unit/receiver - all sound and control
Does that help?
I might be off my rocker, but try to simplify using the above and play from there.