Use a sound pressure level meter, the proper phase setting on the speaker will give you the most sound pressure level at the seating position. Set up the sound pressure level meter at the seating position and choose a reference spl such as 85 dB, put in a test disc such as Avia or Digital Video Essentials or just run tones from the receiver if you don't have a test disk or are lazy like me. Once you get your tone check the spl meter while adjusting the phase. The proper phase will give you the most spl as measured by the meter.